i know im not mentally stable right now. Thats a weakness to me, bout me. My children have never had stability but me. dont get me wrong. maybe the word is someone they could feel loved by, helped when possible, i wasnt the best mother but not until my husband i was raising my children w/o their father which only lived 10 min away.he couldnt be around me. i lived close to a place that the town had rodeo's, carnivals. It would of been a nice place just to be w them & help them feel the fatherside of a parent.my weakness are my children. i am/was all they had & they were all i had.