Missing him

Wasn't sure bout the title....

yes, I am asking for some type of explanation. Please, nothing to harsh. Don't think my heart could take it right now. 

I miss him. My ex that is. I don't know why. I feel so stupid for missing someone that left me. I don't understand. maybe I never will. Isn't it terrible to still love & care for someone that has no feelings for you? How do I get past this? Time eveybody keeps saying...okay I got that. It's been some time...more time, I'm guessing...I have been in bed all day. Luck it's my day off. Well, here goes...hope most of you can give me some advice on how to shake this off...him off...that is. :(

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Comments (22)

  1. shadowstarz

    I’m sure he’ll be back, once he realises you’re providing him with another option. How sad, wasting a perfectly great day pining over someone that chose someone else in the first instance. Hmm. Don’t you think you deserve better than to be someones option, in the first instance ?

    November 12, 2015
    1. showerstoflowers

      Yes, thank you. Love is tricky though. Don’tcha think?

      November 24, 2015
  2. Hugh_Pizmehoff

    The fact that you miss him means he is missing out on all your lovin’ . . . feel sorry for him, not for you.

    November 13, 2015
    1. showerstoflowers

      Aww….that’s beautiful! Makes me feel good…

      November 17, 2015
    2. showerstoflowers

      Love you! Mwah

      November 24, 2015
  3. thedilatorywriter

    That is perfectly natural. And I won’t waste your time by telling you that, in time the feelings will fade, soften, and no longer carry the same weight as they do now. I won’t tell you that because… that would be pointless given your current feelings. I am in the same boat as you by the way – sitting right next to you with the same feelings and thoughts. Maybe my situation is different than yours but it is essentially the same. I’m keeping busy, reading, seeing and hangin out with friends, going places… (NEW PLACES) not the ones we used to go to. I’m flirting and engaging. Would I rather be with her? Yes … yes I would but, she left so I’m trying to have fun. Who knows in time, I may actually have fun!

    November 13, 2015
    1. showerstoflowers

      Where do you live? I will fix missing her right up! Haha jkjkjk

      November 17, 2015
      1. thedilatorywriter

        If only you could!!!!… LOL

        November 17, 2015
        1. showerstoflowers

          Right!

          November 18, 2015
    2. showerstoflowers

      Im trying to have fun…just still kinda hard…

      November 24, 2015
  4. CCSandusky90

    sometimes theres just some people we’ll always love and miss more then anything

    November 15, 2015
    1. showerstoflowers

      I just wish I could stop…

      November 18, 2015
      1. CCSandusky90

        I had a girl walk out on me 8 years ago and i still love and miss her

        November 18, 2015
        1. showerstoflowers

          Aww, I’m sorry.

          November 19, 2015
          1. CCSandusky90

            it’s a part of life..

            November 19, 2015
            1. showerstoflowers

              Yeah & it sucks…

              November 24, 2015
        2. showerstoflowers

          Im sorry

          November 24, 2015
          1. CCSandusky90

            as long as she’s happy with her new life then im happy for her

            November 24, 2015
            1. showerstoflowers

              I guess you are stronger than I am at this time.

              November 25, 2015
            2. showerstoflowers

              Really…

              December 09, 2015
  5. bluevader

    It shows that you are a beautiful human being and that you were courageous enough to risk your heart by falling in love… It shows that what you had with him was really worth something – and when you next fall in love, one day, you will be all the richer for the experience you had already. God bless and hang in there!

    November 17, 2015
    1. showerstoflowers

      That’s so beautiful! Thank you.

      November 18, 2015